Donkey Sex: A Right of Passage?
I know I haven’t blogged for awhile, but this video inspired me to start sharing my thoughts with you all again…
While many people (the host of this video included) will be plainly revolted by the concept of having sexual affairs with quadrupeds, others of us will be able to see beyond our gut reactions and social hang-ups to recognize what a wealth of chit chat this video inspires around the topics of consent, sexual orientation, religion, and the culture of dating and mating.
According to this video, it is not uncommon for young boys and men in parts of Columbia to have their first sexual experiences with female donkeys. Whether this act is a singular occasion or a regular dalliance, it seems to serve as a right of passage into manhood, and a convenient way to get their sexual needs met in an otherwise strict Catholic society. It seemed to me that boys and men sometimes learned how to be better sexual partners by having intercourse with the burros. I was struck by how one 14 year old boy described how to successfully fuck a donkey, saying you need to pat her and be gentle, then hold her firmly and go slowly. He made a cupping gesture with his hand to demonstrate how he stimulates the female donkey’s genitals to “get her ready”. When asked, “Are you afraid of getting kicked?”, the boy shrugged sheepishly and said no. Perhaps his gentle approach does not inherently offend the donkey. Makes one wonder if the donkey is just putting up with this treatment, is an indifferent participant, or if it is actually enjoying some aspects of the affair.
It does seem that the practice of wearing condoms while copulating with a burro is probably not as prevalent as it could be, and I wonder if there is any safer donkey sex awareness pamphlets that could be handed out to inform the community. As a skilled graphic designed, I’m tempted to do some volunteer work…
BTW, this video includes great interview segments with an expert in the field of animal sex psychology, and she makes some illuminating distinctions between zoophilia and bestiality. These proclivities are just one part of the vast spectrum of human sexuality, and to squeamishly deny it’s existence does not help us learn anything about ourselves as humans, or how to cope with our various desires.
I want to congratulate VICE for making such a controversial video that is relatively nonjudgmental, with the exception of the host, who is obnoxiously cynical in most of his appearances. Typically VICE pisses me off when it covers topics of sexuality, but this one warmed the cockles of my heart.
Before you take a peek at this article, take a moment to makes guesses on which pornographic search engine terms are most popular for the USA. I’ll give you a hint…the top three most popular search terms are highly reflective of our nation’s conflicted opinions surrounding the sanctity of innocence and motherhood.
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As I prepare with Mistress Matisse to venture Down Under in December, I’m taking a look around at what various sex worker right advocacy groups are doing to promote the voices of strippers, escorts, Pro-Dommes, phone sex operators, and all other varieties of sex workers. I found this video to be touching, clear, and complete in it’s portrayal of the human experience of coming out as a sex worker.
Another story about the exciting lives of Dommes in New York City! This one highlights Ms. Nina Payne and her work to bring Kink into the public eye. She’s a fantastic lady who keeps those besuited boys in line.
As someone who likes putting boys in their places, I was thrilled to find this photo editorial about a recent Ducati role-reversal! Tits and ass do sell, but they don’t necessarily always have to be female…
As a follow-up to yesterday’s post, this is a closer look at contemporary dating attitudes in Japan, and the influence of technology on intimacy.
I’m a huge fan of Vice Magazine’s video documentary work, and this overview of Japan’s sex commerce is no exception. As someone who is endlessly fascinated with human sexuality, I am obviously drawn to Japan for all of it’s extreme fetish culture and contemporary dating scene. While I do think that the host was slightly judgmental (although funny) about what he was participating in, I think he does a good job of highlighting the distance that modern Japanese people are employing in their sex lives.
I love this playful and beautifully executed series of dripping wet pin-ups!
As someone who enjoys getting messy, now and then, I am enjoying my current daydream of modeling for this photographer. I envision myself swinging through a field of cobalt blue, on a vine made of milk, splashing my way like Jane of the Jungle across the page.