Even if you don’t have a foot fetish, it’s likely that I’ll expect you to worship my feet, at some point.
Mistress,
Again I wanted to thank you for yesterday, each day I love being your toy as you say. I love the marks you let me take home with me. I looked at them as soon as I got home. I know they will last for days and that pleases me as I hope it does you as well.
I count the days on when I can serve you again and dream about the ways that you will allow me to bring you pleasure.
Please even between our times together if there is anything you want from me please tell me and I will do my best to meet your desires.
submissively
whipping boy, 1/2013
What is a Fantasy Facilitator?
If you’ve done a little homework on me, you may notice that I do not always rely on the title of Dominatrix to describe what I do for a living. You might also observe that I use the phrase “Fantasy Facilitator” in addendum to Dominatrix, which is a term I invented myself, and that I feel aptly describes my profession. Before I launch into what characterizes my style of Domination and kink, I would first like to define a few words and give you an idea of what it’s like to run your own business in this part of the adult industry.
I happen to operate in an exciting and sexy world where practitioners can (and do) invent their own titles, create personas for themselves, and work by their own set of rules and standards. For this article, I will refer to this world as the field of “sex work”, and I will refer to the practitioners within it as “erotic service providers”, or simply “providers” for short. Not everyone in my industry subscribes to these phrases, which is another example of how each individual can forge their own path in the industry. This is very important to understand, because my methods of running my kinky business may be in stark contrast to a provider in Germany, Florida, or even just down the street. Our methods may vary in every respect, from our session application process to our realm of specialty (BDSM, massage, dancing, phone sex, escorting, etc.). I hope this essay tells you more about my personal approach to sex work, and helps you determine whether or not we will be a good match for a session.
Oh, and before I go on…I will ultimately have the final say on whether or not we will be suitable match for a session, so buckle down and pay attention. You might want to impress me later…
Let’s examine my chosen title of Fantasy Facilitator. Let’s first address the word Fantasy, which in this context refers to erotic fantasy. YOUR fantasy, to be specific. I have plenty of my own fantasies, of course, but let’s be honest…you’re coming to me because you have some sexy thought or inclination that you’d like to explore. There’s nothing wrong with having sexual fantasies, or for wanting to exercise them with a professional. As Facilitator of fantasies, it’s my job to take your desires and concoct a situation in which you can enjoy them, safely, and without judgment. I will take into account the nuances of your erotic interests, as well as the bigger picture, to develop a scene that you can respond to authentically, and with great satisfaction. As someone who’s always been keenly interested in the range of human sexual expression, I’m honored and thrilled to work personally with your Eros, and really employ all of my skills to make each session a unique, tailored experience for my patron. This is why I believe that the phrase Fantasy Facilitator suites me so nicely.
Now, while it tickles me pick to hit the nail on the head and bring your fantasies to life, I of course need to consider my own physical and emotional safety. Most providers are familiar with the idea of setting personal boundaries around sex work. Sex work can be very demanding on the body and spirit, and mindful providers take care to stay within whatever boundaries feel right for them. If a provider ever decides to alter their boundaries, that decision is up to them, not the client. To pressure a provider (or anyone) into doing something they feel is not right for them is in really poor taste, or criminal, in some cases. My boundaries are stated on the Services section of my website, and I expect for them to be respected by my patrons. Because my boundaries prevent me from performing certain aspects of a fantasy, I either need to be very creative (which I am…), or suggest a potential client that they seek services elsewhere.
Now, let’s move onto the word Dominatrix. I do indeed consider myself to be a Dominatrix (and a fairly sublime one, at that), but given the information I have provided above, do you see why I might wish to expand upon my job title? A classic Dominatrix operates as a supreme and unyielding authority, playing the ruling role in a D/s (Dominance/submission) power dynamic. This is, of course, my short and simple explanation, and I have a feeling that if you asked other Dominas about their definition of the word Dominatrix, you would get different answers. For my purposes, solely stating that I am a Dominatrix does not serve to describe the full range of services I offer, my styles of play, or the fact that I am openly customer service oriented. While many Dommes are behooved by maintaining a tight and constant grip on their power role, I prefer to activate my power in session. I’m very much a professional and an equal while we make arrangements, but as soon as the session starts, I’m a living fantasy. I do this even with my private playmates, letting the D/s dynamic blossom into authenticity as we get to know each other. Since I also specialize in fetish indulgence, a good portion of my scenes don’t employ power play. I’m as varied in my offerings as my patrons are in their desires.
In essence, dear reader, I am an extremely kinky, wildly creative, highly intelligent girl with a knack for knowing what makes you tick. I find your hot buttons, manipulate them, and usually succeed in blowing your mind.
I look forward to hearing from you soon.
~ Ms. Savannah
Fetish Addiction - Financial Domination
I’m loving my new copy of Grey’s Anatomy, and also enjoying my slim volume on the basics of Iridology. These two books are compliments of my book buyer, a financial domination fetishist who would like to try and reel in his kink, exercising his urges with me once a month. I supply my book buyer with an Amazon wishlist of books I’m interested in, and he can purchase whatever is A) hot to him, and B) within his budget. The goal of our relationship is to offer this gentleman a healthy, positive, and controlled outlet for his desires that doesn’t drive him to squander ALL of his money, while simultaneously supplying me with some juicy brain books.
Financial domination is an extremely popular form of online play, but I feel that it’s an activity that lends itself to addictive behavior. By “addictive behavior:, I mean habits that can compromise the critical foundations of one’s life (for instance, relationships, employment, mental and physical health). Financial Domination is a tricky kink to harness, as a lot of the fantasy revolves around the idea of being totally financially drained by a cruel and unrelenting Dominant. It’s sexy for some guys to imagine that they are so hooked on someone that they would do anything to please them, even bankrupt themselves. It’s a lovely fantasy, but not one that is very appealing when it comes down to real life consequences. As with all forms of play, I prefer to stay on the fantasy role-play side of things, doing my best to ensure that my interactions with fetishists and eager subs do not spill over negatively into their vanilla lives.
Just as it is easy for financial domination fetishists to loose themselves in the game of surrender, I think it’s just as hard for a lot of Dommes to resist the urge to cash in. Financial domination is one of the easiest forms of online, long-distance play a Mistress (or Master) can engage in, and I think there’s a real disconnect that can happen when a submissive interacts with you like a hapless cash cow. It’s important to remember that we’re playing with people who are very horny, and therefore vulnerable, who may not be able to foresee the consequences of their orgasmic actions. Is it out job to nanny dumb boys with boners that rule their brains? Nope. However, if one wishes to be a decent and ethical human being, we will refrain from greedily preying on the weaknesses of others, a concept which is sure to wilt the boner of many a subbie boy. Oh well!
I’d rather play with a small handful of healthy, conscientious kinksters than rake it in at the expense of the possibly maladjusted masses. I hope very much that my arrangement with my book buyer is enduring and sexy enough to keep both of our desires to indulge in check.
Check out my work with Goddess Tierra on SnobStudios.com .
Together we tease and torment my sissy roomate Audrey and make wanker boys drool over our stunning bodies.
For those who enjoy bitchy femdom at it’s finest, Snob Studios is for you.
A few especially delicious shots of my anatomy, compliments of Amartoli Photography. Interested in hiring me for fetish modeling? Inquire via my website, or visit my Model Mayhem profile.
-Ms. Savannah
I love a good foot worship session, especially when I’ve been on my feet all day long. My smelly feet need a nice nose and tongue worshiping them! My sweaty toes pressing into your nose and mouth! mmm!! You sucking and licking my soft toes brings me a lot of pleasure! So who wants to be my little foot slave? Watch this video now, and you can start dreaming of what it would be like to actually worship my feet. Lucky for you I was a girlfriend’s house and we both want you to suck and lick our feet! START Worshiping NOW, Foot SLUT!
Cum lick our feet little foot freak!
TWO dominant women talk DOWN to You as you hover near their feet in heels. Dirty, humiliating talk, closeups of feet and toes, and much more! Check out Ms. Tierra’s studio!
